The world, as we now know it, has always been perceived by humans in a fragmented and divisive way, rarely has anyone gone beyond the limits of duality lived under the polar opposite aspects of good and evil, up and down, negative and positive, just and unfair,etc It is very rare to meet people who have really understood the subject of relativity on the human level, beings who have understood that the sense of right or wrong varies from person to person, depending on the values and experiences of those same people. In fact, in our days, we find more and more often situations in which individuals quarrel among themselves for nonsense, for incompatibility of character, for the lack of consideration for the ideas of others, for the sense of self-sufficiency lived in an all-encompassing way, which leads people to consider their "truth" as unique and unquestionable.
When one has this type of approach, it happens that in all situations of life one never puts oneself in discussion, one never listens to, if not one's own voice, and the "faults" are always attributed to others. There are people who, when they are in contradiction with others, never want to come to understand that the blame for that situation can also be them and always blame others. They are capable of finding the faults in everything except themselves, they find faults in the meteorological conditions, in the menstrual cycle, in means of transport that do not arrive in time, in traffic, in the mother-in-law, in the rain, in the sun, in the animals, in the moon position on the sky etc ...,but they never see any fault in their own behavior. These people always have justifications for their way of acting. To be justified is considered to be one of the major "sins", it is a sin similar to disobedience, since even Adam and Eve, in Paradise, justified themselves and thus lost everything. Instead of justifying themselves in a childish way, they could simply have admitted the mistake and humbly apologize and everything would have come back as before or even better. Not having done so and having instead chosen the way of justification, they have shown that they are still immature for the paradisiacal state, a state of bliss lived thanks to the sense of responsibility and spiritual maturity. Similarly, human beings who always find justifications for their selfish behaviors instead of taking responsibility for their experiences and their actions, choose to renounce the paradisiacal experience of bliss generated by inner peace and awareness, always chasing those situations that generate agitation, confusion, discomfort, pain and general suffering.
Any human being who respects himself and others, who has respect for the wonderful gift that is life itself, has the sacred duty to constantly strive to be a bearer of harmony, peace, serenity andbalance. Let us therefore commit ourselves, in every situation of conflict, to analyze ourselves and see if we have done everything in our possibilities to maintain harmony and peace or if, on the contrary, we are the source of such disharmony, disturbing peace of others and ours, thus increasing suffering. Let us ask ourselves if, in some situations, we do not seek, unconsciously but deliberately, reasons to be sick. Let us ask ourselves, in every situation, what was the relationship between what the others said and what we exposed: we really listened to what others were trying to expose or we only pretended to listen, thinking in all that time only about what we wanted tell us? The path of peace and harmony must begin on one side, for there to be peace there must always be someone wiser who goes to meet the other.
We can choose to do it ourselves! We can choose to take the first step in understanding who we are facing instead of judging and labeling it. Let us remember that, after all, others reflect what we are at a given moment, they are like a mirror that reflects what we have inside. And, we keep in mind that a love, an affection or a friendship should not be compromised because of temporary and transitory whims or uncontrolled emotions. And above all, we always remember that there is nothing in the world that is worth as much as our inner peace!
When one has this type of approach, it happens that in all situations of life one never puts oneself in discussion, one never listens to, if not one's own voice, and the "faults" are always attributed to others. There are people who, when they are in contradiction with others, never want to come to understand that the blame for that situation can also be them and always blame others. They are capable of finding the faults in everything except themselves, they find faults in the meteorological conditions, in the menstrual cycle, in means of transport that do not arrive in time, in traffic, in the mother-in-law, in the rain, in the sun, in the animals, in the moon position on the sky etc ...,but they never see any fault in their own behavior. These people always have justifications for their way of acting. To be justified is considered to be one of the major "sins", it is a sin similar to disobedience, since even Adam and Eve, in Paradise, justified themselves and thus lost everything. Instead of justifying themselves in a childish way, they could simply have admitted the mistake and humbly apologize and everything would have come back as before or even better. Not having done so and having instead chosen the way of justification, they have shown that they are still immature for the paradisiacal state, a state of bliss lived thanks to the sense of responsibility and spiritual maturity. Similarly, human beings who always find justifications for their selfish behaviors instead of taking responsibility for their experiences and their actions, choose to renounce the paradisiacal experience of bliss generated by inner peace and awareness, always chasing those situations that generate agitation, confusion, discomfort, pain and general suffering.
Any human being who respects himself and others, who has respect for the wonderful gift that is life itself, has the sacred duty to constantly strive to be a bearer of harmony, peace, serenity andbalance. Let us therefore commit ourselves, in every situation of conflict, to analyze ourselves and see if we have done everything in our possibilities to maintain harmony and peace or if, on the contrary, we are the source of such disharmony, disturbing peace of others and ours, thus increasing suffering. Let us ask ourselves if, in some situations, we do not seek, unconsciously but deliberately, reasons to be sick. Let us ask ourselves, in every situation, what was the relationship between what the others said and what we exposed: we really listened to what others were trying to expose or we only pretended to listen, thinking in all that time only about what we wanted tell us? The path of peace and harmony must begin on one side, for there to be peace there must always be someone wiser who goes to meet the other.
We can choose to do it ourselves! We can choose to take the first step in understanding who we are facing instead of judging and labeling it. Let us remember that, after all, others reflect what we are at a given moment, they are like a mirror that reflects what we have inside. And, we keep in mind that a love, an affection or a friendship should not be compromised because of temporary and transitory whims or uncontrolled emotions. And above all, we always remember that there is nothing in the world that is worth as much as our inner peace!
